Parenting Spiritually
in support of your child.
Parenting Spiritually
Raising children through choice, not control.
You already love your child completely. But love doesn't come with a map.
Most of us parent the way we were parented: instructing, correcting, redirecting, without ever questioning whether there's another way. A way that works with who your child actually is, rather than who we think they should be.
Parenting Spiritually gives you that map. From pre-conception to adulthood, it covers every stage of the parenting journey with practical wisdom drawn directly from the spiritual world and it will change not just how you parent, but how you see your child.
A new model for modern parenting.
For generations, parenting has been built on instruction, a belief that parents "know best".
But what if the purpose of parenting wasn’t to control or correct, but to guide through choice?
Parenting Spiritually reveals:
How to raise a child without suppressing their individuality
How to support your child’s spiritual purpose from birth to adulthood
How to parent for the child, not for the parent
How to relieve yourself of the impossible pressure to “get it right”
This is not about permissiveness, it’s about conscious guidance that nurtures the child’s independence, confidence and spirit.
The parenting manual you've been hoping for.
Inside the book is a deeply practical, eye-opening guide covering the full parenting journey — from pre-conception to grandparenting.
You’ll find both profound insights and real-world examples that make these principles easy to apply.
Inside the book is a deeply practical, eye-opening guide covering the full parenting journey — from pre-conception to grandparenting.
You’ll find both profound insights and real-world examples that make these principles easy to apply.
What you'll find inside:
Parenting on an Instructional Model
Parenting Through Choice
Responsibility of the Parent
The Impact of Spiritual Values
Parenting Scenarios with Teenagers
The Role of Grandparents and Extended Figures
Why parenting spiritually matters.
Consider the helpless infant — reliant on parents for everything.
Then, as the child grows, parents begin to instruct: do this, don’t do that. The parent tells the child what to do because the parent believes they know better.
When the child makes their own choice, we often override it.
This teaches the child that being “good” means silencing their own needs to please others.
They learn to gain love through compliance — a pattern that follows them into adult life.
Parenting Spiritually breaks this cycle.
It helps parents guide without control — and children grow with independence, inner strength, and self-worth.
“Imagine a world where parents recognise the independence of their child — and vow to help them achieve what they came to earth for.”
This is an entirely new approach to parenting which will allow the child to better achieve what it came to earth to do and to relieve the parent of a lot of the pressure of parenting.
Reader's Reviews
"No other book gave me this."
"I wish I'd had this when my kids were small — but it changed everything anyway"
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As a mother of 7 children, I have celebrated the highs and struggled with the lows of parenting. I bore my 1st child at 19 and my 7th at 42. No other book or course gave me the reasoning, understanding and importance of the different phases of growth, the impact of spiritual values on a child’s life, and what practical actions can be taken in the grind of daily living to equip them to recognise their own power and reason for being here in this life journey." — Trish Lehman
"I came to this book as a parent of grown children and it still stopped me in my tracks. I could see every pattern in how I was parented, in how I parented, and in what I'd passed on without meaning to. It's not a guilt trip. It's a completely different way of seeing the whole thing. I've recommended it to every parent I know. I refer to this book all the time and my grown children refer to it now they're parents" - — Juliet Reid
"Loved everything so far"
“This parenting book has been an invaluable source of information to help me understand my child and the role I need to play so he can achieve what he’s meant to in his life. I’ve referred to it so many times over the years… I believe I have a stronger, more loving relationship with my son because of it.”
- Lucinda Pyman
"My life changed forever"
“It’s my go-to when I’m unsure what’s best for my son. It’s given me confidence in my decisions and comfort knowing we’re parenting in a way that truly supports him. I can’t recommend it highly enough.”
- Olivia White
"Highly recommend this"
“As a parent of four, Parenting Spiritually has been life-changing. I use it regularly for guidance — it never collects dust on the shelf.”
- Samantha Anna
About the authors
Writers Ian and Pearl Rogers bring their wealth of knowledge and understanding of human behaviour and emotions and their ability to access high level spiritual knowledge in delivering this elite and innovative approach to parenting.
Ian and Pearl Rogers are founders and directors of the Sphinx Spiritual School of Learning - one of the world's leading institutions for spiritual education and development.
Through decades of teaching mediumship, spiritual counselling, parenting, and relationships, they discovered that most emotional struggles in adults trace directly back to childhood. Parenting Spiritually was born from that realisation.
Both renowned mediums and teachers, Ian and Pearl access their knowledge directly from the spiritual world — which means this book carries wisdom that goes far beyond conventional parenting theory. It is, as they put it, practical and advanced spiritual knowledge brought to earth.
They are proud parents and grandparents to five.
Topics Covered
Table Of Contents
The concepts given will enthral you and all of the practical examples delight you. This is a book which covers from pre-conception to parenting adult children and is just as applicable to a grandparent as it is to a prospective parent.
Prologue
Chapter 1
What is parenting?
Chapter 2
Parenting on an instructional model
Chapter 3
The concept of time in parenting
Chapter 4
Parenting through choice
Chapter 5
External effects of parenting through choice
Chapter 6
Setting expectations for the child
Chapter 7
Parenting for the child, not parenting for the parent
Chapter 8
Treating children the same no matter their gender
Chapter 9
Gender
Chapter 10
The beginning of the parenting cycle
Chapter 11
Responsibility of the parent
Chapter 12
What new parents need to know about their child pre-birth
Chapter 13
The birth
Chapter 14
Parenting a child to 3 months
Chapter 15
Parenting a child from 3 months to 2 years
Chapter 16
Parenting from 2 to 12
Chapter 17
Adopted children
Chapter 18
Step-children
Chapter 19
The price of raising non-independent children
Chapter 20
The differing roles of mother and father in the child’s life from 2 - 12
Chapter 21
The phases of growth and major learning for a child 2 - 12 years
Chapter 22
The impact of spiritual values on a child from 2 to 12 years
Chapter 23
Parenting a child from 13 - 21 years of age
Chapter 24
The impact of spiritual values from the age of 13 - 21 years
Chapter 25
Parenting scenarios with teenagers
Chapter 26
Parenting from 21 years
Chapter 27
The role of grandparents and other external figures
Chapter 28
Learning how to parent from the young
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This is more than a book, it’s a companion for your parenting journey, one you’ll return to at every stage of your child’s life.
OUR PROCESS
Personal Harmony™ 3-Step Debrief
Our 3-Step Debrief process is what makes Personal Harmony different from typical coaching approaches.
Step 1: Values Insight
Uncover patterns driving your behaviour and discover what's truly important to you.
Step 2: Values Gap
Identify where misalignment creates struggle & understand why you feel stuck.
Step 3: The Need To Act
Create a clear roadmap for transformation with practical steps forward.
This structured approach creates immediate clarity and lasting change from the very first session.
